The question was bang on....when there is no love lost (not exact words), why not ask out of it.. why continue just for the heck of it..? Who are we fooling around...?
Is it valid to answer that those values do not exist anymore....if they don't. .then why do we carry its carcass. .? Why have the facade? Has maintaining status become more important than rocking the boat? Has social stigma become more important than one's wellbeing? Is society not for us or are we for the society..is this whole set up not to make us happy? Was not the purpose of this institution? If yes..then why are we afraid of it?
What are we afraid of? Who are we afraid of?
while answering one question, we rely on the theory that we have to do what keeps us happy.. we have to keep enjoying our life.... and then in the next instance we just change the definition of that happiness..we say the old way of life does not exist...the old values are no more...the things once considered as virtues have been redefined... now everyone wants space. ..freedom...individuality.. (even the word contains duality).
Somewhere we are being hypocrites... somewhere down inside we are not ready to face the truth.. we do not want to leave our comfort zone....
This needs to be answered... I reiterate it is always better to "ask out", than continue with the tirade with the false pretense that this is what I want..this is what is the truth... this is reality... no..it is not so...
And this question has its mrrits...the initial silence did reveal acceptance of this question... when will we stand for it? When will we take decision regarding it..
TIME will come when this question will be raised again....at that time not to be spared till I get satisfactory answer to it
AND I MEAN IT......